It’s 9:15 AM and Little H and I
have already been to a park, grocery store, peed in a parking lot (him, not
me), and are now at the mall 45 minutes before the stores open. Ambitious today, aren't we? Well, it's a feat in maneuvering Los Angeles traffic as I await my appointment with a geneticist later this morning.
I’m watching my little boy climb around on those electronic cars that rock back and forth; he pretends to drive the bright hunks of metal and waves at me through the window openings. I smile at his sweet play. How I love my little companion. And I also kind of love that I don't have to put quarters in the cars yet.
The
last week has been filled with a pendulum of specialists’ opinions on my pregnancy. The geneticist, today, won’t offer much new to the picture.
Mostly, she will go over the possible abnormalities the baby may have. Using estimates
from my radiation office on actual amounts of exposure we're dealing with, she will
work out an equation of risk. If that estimated risk of abnormality is above
10%, her professional advice will be to seek an abortion, as is the standard in
the medical community.
I am appalled that babies with 90% odds at health are preemptively aborted.
I will look calmly into her face and nod, interested in the percentage she will come up with, but knowing Bobby and I will not heed that advice, should it come.
It does not come. In a few days I will receive a
letter from her, in which she details her calculated risk to fall in the below
10% range for abnormalities. We
receive this, and all of the recent facts, as promising. Our raging storm is
settling into a tranquil awe.
We still don’t share the news yet, and I try
to maintain some semblance of a shield between wholehearted elation and
expectation. While I long to hold onto the palpable meaning in this peripety, I also want to be able to survive if it is not the reversal of tragedy I hope it
to be.
Ultimately, I understand I may
lose the baby and that he or she is running a higher risk of deformities. I
understand I may be compromising my own health, slightly, with a pregnancy and
a delayed start to my adjuvant prescription regime. But as long as we have a
growing child, we still have good news.
If this little one makes it, what a beautiful, beautiful
miracle at the end of so much pain.
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